Need For A Guru
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Importance of a Preceptor
by
T.N. Dhar 'Kundan'
There is a saying in Hindi
‘Guru bin gati nahin – Achievement is not
possible without a guru’. This statement needs a
detailed analysis and examination, particularly
because there have been many great spiritual
luminaries who were known to have achieved highest
levels without the guidance of a preceptor. On the
other hand there have been saints and sages like
Swami Vivekananda, who were guided to spiritual
heights by their preceptors. In Indian mythology
and tradition mention is made of many such
spiritual giants, who are said to have surpassed
their preceptors. There are instances where some
fortunate ones have got messages in their dreams
or even otherwise, about the persons, who were
going to be their preceptors. Also there are cases
where some gurus have got the divine direction to
guide a particular person. Thus there are
illustrations supporting every possible situation.
A seeker can find a suitable guru for himself,
someone could be ordained to guide him, he can get
an indication about whom he should approach for
spiritual guidance or he can go on his own on the
path of spirituality.
Even in the case of mundane
and worldly matters one may like to benefit from
the advice of the seniors and the knowledgeable,
take lessons from the experiences of others or use
one’s own wisdom and judgment and experiment with
life for one’s own self. In the day-to-day life we
see that the so-called educated persons are not
necessarily wise or well behaved. Similarly those
who are unlettered are not, ipso facto, unwise and
uncultured. Life is a great teacher and by its
nature it is a series of experiences, which teach
us the facts of life and guide us how to conduct
ourselves. We are social animals and, therefore,
form small groups, communities and societies
within the framework of the country in which we
live. Our country also models and remodels itself
within the global compulsions in order to prove
its credentials as a worthy member of the
international family. A society learns from other
societies, a country benefits from other countries
and likewise an individual makes the best use of
the experiences of other fellow individuals. Thus
in mundane matters there are teachers who guide us
either directly or indirectly, either knowingly or
unknowingly. The question that arises is whether
the same is the case in the spiritual world as
well. Do we benefit from other’s experiences?
Spiritual experience and
seeking are by the nature of these things strictly
a private affair for every one of us. Those who
are in the process of seeking may be able to
roughly describe the methodology adopted by them
but they are completely unable to describe their
actual achievements, not even the interim
milestones. Therefore our benefiting from the
experience of others is absolutely out of the
question. Even our preceptors give broad
guidelines and tell us how to proceed with our
spiritual experience. This is definitely based
upon his or her own experience, for it is said
that no one can lead us on a path, which he
himself has not traversed. Thereafter we have to
do the needful ourselves and benefit from our own
experiences and experiments. This leaves us with
one more question and that is in which cases do we
need preceptors and their guidance.
According to the Indian
tradition spiritual experience can be of four
different types depending upon which of the four
ways we adopt for achieving the goal, ‘Jnana’
or knowledge, ‘Karma’ or actions, ‘Bhakti’
or devotion and ‘Dhyana’ or
contemplation. A teacher or a guru is definitely
needed if we tread on the path of knowledge
because there has to be some body knowledgeable,
which can impart that knowledge to us. It is then
up to us to assimilate that knowledge and also if
possible and required, to improve upon it.
Similarly a teacher is needed and indeed useful to
guide us on the path of action. He can put us wise
as to what should and what should not be done.
Having selected the action he can again tell us
how to go about executing it. Thereafter it is up
to us how dexterously we undertake the action and
how well we execute it in order to achieve the
desired results expeditiously and in full.
Likewise for contemplation a teacher is needed to
teach us the technique and the methodology. Actual
contemplation is for us to undertake. If we are
able to perfect the technique we will surely
achieve the target and get illumined in the
shortest time possible. Of course all these things
in these three areas can alternatively be learnt
from an in depth study of the scriptures as well.
Even when we do take refuge at the feet of a guru,
the guidance received from him can further be
supplemented by a detailed study of the
scriptures. In fact the guru can be instrumental
in helping us select and choose the useful
passages and portions of the relevant literature
from the vast treasure available to us.
Devotion, however, is a
different cup of tea altogether. Once we are deep
in love with our chosen beloved and have
unflinching and unwavering faith and confidence in
him, we really do not need any teacher. Meera and
Surdas, Chaitanya Mahaprabhu and their ilk did not
need any Guru. In fact this chosen beloved can be
our preceptor itself. Once we are madly in love
like the Gopis were in love with Shri Krishna,
where is the need for a teacher? Love is not a
thing that can be taught, faith is not a thing
that can be created and confidence is not a thing
that can be dictated. All these traits either we
have or we do not have. We may not have these but
may imbibe in course of time. Devotion in fact is
needed in all the different paths adopted by
different seekers for their spiritual elevation.
We have to be devoted to the knowledge that we
seek in the path of ‘Jnana’ or knowledge.
This devotion will take us nearer to the Supreme
Truth. We have to be devoted and committed to the
actions and deeds that we undertake. The devoted
actions only will illumine our spiritual path.
Devotion in contemplation will ensure
concentration and hasten the entire process for
the spiritual elevation. Without due devotion no
path will lead us to our desired goal.
Devotion presupposes love,
faith, confidence and complete surrender. Even
those seekers, who take to other ways of seeking
God, reach a point where they have to surrender.
This surrender ensures the grace of God without
which fructification of no effort is possible.
Spiritual seekers treading on the path of
knowledge and action use their faculties of
reasoning and logic, which give them power of
discriminating between transient and eternal and
take them a long way towards their goal.
Thereafter they have to take recourse to faith,
which takes them to the goal itself. While in the
first leg of their spiritual journey they may find
taking someone as their guru useful and
beneficial, in the second leg no guru would be
needed. Guidance of a guru is needed in the first
instance but later no guru is required. Love is
actually in the nature of an instinct. It chooses
its beloved itself and then sacrifices everything
including personal comforts for his sake. A seeker
walking on the path of devotion or ‘Bhakti’
surrenders before his beloved from the beginning
of his spiritual journey, which travellers on
other paths have to do in the end. Goal, however,
is common for all of them as Pushpadanta says in
his ‘Shiva Mahimnastotra’: ‘Riju kutila nana
pathajusham nrinam-eko gamyah tvam-asi
payasam-arnava-iva – For people treading
different paths, straight or crooked, You (Shiva)
only are the goal just as the ocean is the goal
for all rivers flowing into it’.
Having said that, we cannot
deny that a guru may not necessarily be required
to guide or lead on the path of ‘Bhakti’ or
devotion, yet it cannot be completely ruled out
that he can be a source of inspiration in this
case also. There have been cases where a person,
an ordinary worldly person, has reached a turning
point in his life from where the direction of his
life has taken an about-turn with the result that
his life has changed altogether. At this point
something or someone has definitely inspired him,
visibly or invisibly. There has been change in the
life of Valmiki, Tulsidas and host of other great
men and they have taken to a life of highest
spiritual character, after this change. We see,
even in the contemporary times, great orators
addressing gatherings of thousands of people and
narrating the stories from Ramayana, Shrimad
Bhagawat and other sacred texts. All the assembled
persons, men and women, listen to these stories
with devotion and many of them are inspired to
take to the path of ‘Bhakti’ in all
seriousness. If these noble men are able to
inspire some people in these collective
gatherings, certainly preceptors can influence and
inspire individuals also in their private sittings
to tread on the path of devotion.
Devotion is a straightforward
affair. It needs no technique or methodology. It
only needs unflinching love, dedication, trust and
confidence coupled with complete surrender. On
this path the ego, the notion of ‘I’ vanishes. The
devotee realizes that the Divine only does
whatever takes place and he remains devoid of the
notion of doer-ship ‘Kartritva’. The
devotee understands that the Divine only enjoys
whatever he seems to be enjoying visibly and
thereby he shuns the notion of enjoyer-ship, ‘Bhoktritva’.
Similarly he believes that the Divine only
possesses whatever he is seen to be possessing and
thus he gives up the pride of possession and
ownership, ‘Mamatva’. Whenever he offers
anything to anyone he utters this statement in all
humility, ‘Tvadiyam vastu Govinda tubhyam-eva
samarpaye – O Lord, this is all yours and is
being offered to you only’.
Guru is a Sanskrit word,
which can mean a teacher, a guide, an elder, an
enlightened one or a preceptor. Some scholars have
interpreted it as a word combining two syllables,
one meaning darkness and the other remover. They
conclude that a Guru is one who removes all the
darkness of ignorance. Be that as it may. A
question is often asked whether a Guru is a must
and whether every one of us needs a Guru. Our
experience in both mundane and spiritual fields
shows that there have been people, who were very
knowledgeable but with the guidance of one or the
other Guru. Also there have been equally
enlightened persons without any Guru or what we
call self-made persons. Thus to give a clear cut
answer to this question about inevitability of
having a Guru is well nigh impossible.
Arthur Osborne has observed
in the biography of Raman Maharshi that ‘the term
Guru is used in three senses. It can mean one who,
although he has no spiritual attainment, has been
invested (like the ordination of a priest) with
the right to give initiation and upadesa.
He is often hereditary and is not unlike a family
doctor for spiritual health. Secondly, the Guru
can be one who, in addition to the above, has some
spiritual attainment and can guide his disciples
by more potent upadesa (even though the
actual practices enjoined may be the same) as far
as he himself has gone. But in the highest and
truest meaning of the word, the Guru is he who has
realized Oneness with the Spirit that is the Self
of all. This is the Sadguru.’ He has quoted the
Maharshi as having described a Guru as follows:
“The Guru or Jnani (enlightened One)
sees no difference between himself and others.
For him all are Jnanis, all are one with
himself, so how can a Jnani say that such
and such is his disciple? But the un-liberated one
sees all as multiple, he sees all as different
from himself, so to him the Guru-disciple
relationship is a reality, and he needs the Grace
of the Guru to waken him to reality. For him there
are three ways of initiation, by touch, look and
silence.”
In reply to a query whether
he had a Guru or not, the Maharshi is
reported to have said that ‘Guru is God or
Self. First a man prays to God to fulfill his
desires then a time comes when he does not pray
for the fulfillment of a desire but for God
Himself. So God appears to him in some form or
other, human or non-human, to guide him as a
Guru in answer to his prayer.’ On yet another
occasion he is said to have clarified that ‘a
Guru can be outside yourself or within
yourself. Two things are to be done, first to find
the Guru outside yourself and then to find
the Guru within.’ These statements assert
that there can be a Guru, who may not be in
any human form and yet may give initiation and
Upadesa to his disciple.
We know from the Shrimad
Bhagavad Gita that three things are needed for us
to benefit from a Guru. These are ‘Pranipata’
or submission, ‘Pariprashna’ or enquiry
and ‘Seva’ or service. As regards
submission, Arthur says that ‘submission to this
Guru is not submission to any outside
oneself but to the Self manifested outwardly in
order to help one discover the Self within.’ He
has quoted the Maharshi as having remarked thus:
‘The Master is within; meditation is meant to
remove the ignorant idea that he is only outside.
If he were a stranger whom you were awaiting, he
would be bound to disappear also. What would be
the use of a transient being like that? But as
long as you think that you are separate or are the
body, so long is the outer Master also necessary
and he will appear as if with a body. When the
wrong identification of oneself with the body
ceases the Master is found to be none other than
the Self.’
The philosophy behind all
this discussion is that the Self, the Preceptor
and the God are actually one. This stands to
reason when one believes and perceives that God
pervades everything and that everything is the
manifestation of the God. This is the high point
of ‘Advaita’ or non-dualism. We have a rich
heritage of saints and sages. If we go through
their lives on this planet earth we come across
divergent situations and happenings. There are
instances where some of them did not have a
Guru as such in a human form. Those who had
too present a variety of pictures. In some cases a
Guru has travelled miles in search of his
disciple and having found him has initiated him
and given him upadesa. In other cases a
disciple has traversed long distances and has run
from pillar to post in search of his Guru.
After finding him he has surrendered and
prostrated before him and sought spiritual
guidance. Some luckier ones have chanced to come
by a Guru, who has readily taken them into
their tutelage. In many cases a Guru is
reported to have tested the acumen, sincerity and
resilience of the disciple before accepting him as
his ‘Shishya’, or disciple. In some cases
even the disciple has examined the competence and
the spiritual level of his Guru before
handing over the reins of his spiritual journey to
him. There are a few odd cases where a disciple
was refused acceptance by a reputed Guru
and yet the disciple made him his preceptor in
absentia and received initiation by connecting
with him through his conscience.
The Guru gives
upadesa and initiates the lucky one whom he
takes into his tutelage. It is believed that there
are three modes of initiation, by touch, by look
and by silence. A bird that needs to sit on its
eggs in order to hatch them denotes initiation by
touch. A fish, which needs only to look at its
eggs to thatch them, represents initiation by
look. A tortoise typifies initiation by silence,
as it needs only to think and the eggs get
thatched. We have come across a variety of
different ways of initiation by touch. A Guru
may put his hand on the disciple’s head. He
may touch his forehead or his cheek. He may strike
him with his toes gently. He may touch an item and
then make the disciple touch the same or cause him
to touch the same item and the process of
initiation is complete. The initiation by touch is
also known as Shaktipat or descent of
power. Initiation by look is a straight eye
contact whereby the Guru transmits the
spiritual light to his Shishya by looking
into his eyes. In this case the latter is
mesmerized as it were and for a moment goes into
the state of trance. In the case of the initiation
by silence what happens is that the Guru
and the Shishya both come on to the same
wave length of thought and a spiritual connection
is formed.
Every one of us refers to
himself as ‘I’. He has three aspects, being (Astitva),
doing (Kartritva) and enjoying (Bhokhtritva).
His being is called Sat in our scriptures.
This is his existence, which he is required to
recognize. His doing has to be for the good and
benefit of all and for that his Chit or
consciousness is there to guide him. Then there is
his enjoying this has to be detached as has been
rightly and explicitly stated in the Upanishad, ‘Tena
tyekhtena bhunjeethah – thus you must enjoy
everything with an attitude of ‘Tyaga’,
which has been defined as not worrying about the
fruit. This will give him Aananda or bliss.
The three together ‘Sat, Chit, Aananda’
form the description of the Supreme God. These
three correspond to another set of three words
describing Him, i.e. Satyam or
certitude, Shivam or benevolence and
Sundaram or aesthetics. Certitude denotes
existence (for only that which exists can be true
and certain), benevolence refers to noble actions
and deeds and aesthetics causes bliss. Now it is
the guidance of a Guru that shapes these
three aspects in us, viz. our personality, our
deeds and our bliss.
It would be interesting to
narrate some known facts here about various
preceptors and how they approached or were
approached by their disciples. Take the case of
Pandit Krishna Kar. He was ordained by the goddess
to guide Rishi Peer. He went to his house and not
finding him there (he had gone to Hari Parvat),
smoked from the hubble-bubble kept at his house.
He left a word with his mother that Rishi Peer
should smoke from the same smoking implement. When
he came home, he did as was told and got the
upadesa. Alakheswari Roopa Bhawani had
her own father as her Guru, who not only
gave her lessons in scriptures but also led her on
the path of supreme enlightenment, which she has
referred to as ‘Parama Gati). Similarly
Shri Rama Krishna was approached by his would be
Guru and initiated as ordained by the
goddess. He, in his discourses, used to liken
money with fire. In order to test his statement
Narendra Nath, before he became Swami Vivekananda,
hid a currency note under the seat of Shri Rama
Krishna. When he came and took his seat, he
immediately stood up shouting ‘fire, fire!’ Then
smilingly, he revealed that this must be the
handiwork of Narendra. Anandamayi Maa was
initiated by her Guru and in due course
after that she initiated her own husband. Shri
Raman Maharshi said that a Guru could be
impersonal as well since he believed that the
Self, the Guru and God, all were one and
the same. Bhagavaan Gopinath, when asked about his
Guru, referred to the Bhagavad Gita and
said any one of the seven hundred and odd
Shlokas of it could be the Guru.
Naturally, therefore, he was also referring to an
impersonal Guru.
After giving it a thought we
feel that every seeker is a disciple in his own
right and has a Guru, personal or
impersonal. The guru evaluates his acumen,
capacity and spiritual level and accordingly
suggests a path for him to tread upon. The
disciple also seeks a Guru as per his
tastes, liking and inclination. It makes easier
for him to chalk out a suitable path for himself.
There have been cases where a disciple has changed
the course of his journey midway after realising
that the path he was on was not suitable for him,
was difficult for him or was more time consuming.
Some seekers progress step by step and rise by
stages. For them Shri Gita says, ‘Aneka janma
sansiddhah tato yanti paran-gatim – these
people seek perfection life after life and then
attain the supreme status.’ Others jump over many
stages and reach the destination in lesser time.
According to Kashmir Shaiva Philosophy there comes
a stage when they realise that the seeker and the
sought after are one and the same. Even then there
is an element of dualism at that stage too since
the seeker and the sought after are considered as
two different entities. They raise themselves
further up and get merged with the Supreme and
then alone the stage of perfect non-dualism is
reached.
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