One of the most significant, and
surprising, features of the early Kashmiri society was the freedom that women
enjoyed. The picture one gets of their life from various literary sources is not
that of servitude or deprivation but of happy participation in different spheres
of human activity. There was no attempt to marginalise them or deculturise their
personality, as was being done in other contemporary societies elsewhere in the
world. Though under the protective umbrella of the family, they occupied a
pivotal place in social life and moved about with unfettered freedom.
Undoubtedly, the society was patriarchal, but there was no restriction on the
movement of women, nor were any irrational curbs imposed on their activity. In
the age of Nilamata and the centuries that followed, female seclusion was
something unknown in Kashmir till Islam made its advent. Participating joyfully
in the numerous festivals prescribed in the Nilamata, they would go to the
gardens in the company of their menfolk without any inhibition or fear of
approbation. For instance, during the Iramanjariutsava, they would freely
sport with men under the flower-laden boughs of the Iramanjari shrubs,
exchanging garlands of flowers with men in a spirit of gay abandon Or go to the
fruit gardens on the Ashokikashtami day to worship fruit-bearing trees”’. Such
was the spirit of the times that during the Shravani Utsava. young maidens were
enjoined to go and enjoy water sports. Yet another seasonal-festival was
Krishyarambha when peasant women would accompany their menfolk to the “open
fields of nature for ceremonial ploughing of the soil and sowing of seeds”. It
was a month long festival celebrated amidst much singing and dancing While these
outdoor festivals showed that women in these times were in no way confined to
the four walls of their homes, there were numerous indoor festivals too. For
instance, during the Kaumudi Mahotsava or the festival of the Full Moon, women
would sit beside the sacred fire with their husbands and children, watching the
beauty of the moonlit night. Even servants were allowed to participate in such
festivals.
There was Madana Trayodashai, festival
dedicated to the god of love. On this occasion a husband would demonstrate his
love for his wife by personally giving her a bath with sacred water scented by
herbs. Similarly, at the end of the three-day Mahimana celebrations,
well-adorned ladies would freely and joyfully play with men. On Sukha Suptika or
Deepawali night, the well-adorned wife, could display her charms to her husband
in the exciting privacy of the specially decorated bedroom and savour his
compliments.
That is not all. There were special occasions when men were
to make ladies of the house happy by giving them new clothes as presents. One
such occasion was on the Navahimapata-utsava or the New Snowfall Day— a festival
that was celebrated by the Kashmiri Pandits till they were exiled from their
native land. On the full moon day of Margashirsha (January-February), the
householder is enjoined by the Nilamata to invite his sister, paternal aunt and
friend’s wife, besides a Brahmana lady, and honour them with gifts of new
clothes. Presentation of gifts to a friend’s wife! That could happen only in a
free society.
An enlivening feature of these beautiful festivals was,
music, dance and dramatic shows. These were an essential part of the festivals
that the early Hindus of Kashmir celebrated, and the ladies watched these shows
with great joy. Not only watched them but must have participated in them. And
the ladies were attractively attired, well decorated and well perfumed during
these festivities. Surely, this must have added great charm and beauty to their
life. Another thing even more important to be noted is that these ancient social
festivals have a religious setting.
Coming to religious life, the presence of women in the
performance of various rites. rituals and ceremonies was regarded as essential.
And that is how things should have been in a society where people regarded
Kashmir, their native land an embodiment of goddess Uma. This is very
significant, for it shows that the Mother Goddess cult has occupied a central
place in the religious beliefs of Kashmiri Hindus from the earliest times, a
cult that explains respect for women as an aspect of reverence for the divine
feminine. A host of goddesses began to be worshipped in Kashmir from Uma and
Durga, Lakshmi, Saraswati and Mahakali to the very popular and very local
deities like Sharika, Ragya, Tripura and Jwala. Shaiva and Shakta Tantricism,
which became very popular in Kashmir from the 7th century, identifies Shakti
with Supreme Reality, which, it says is “female in essence”. That makes us
understand why an aspirant taking to the Kulachara mode of worship is asked to
look upon women with extreme reverence.
One of the most noteworthy features of early Kashmir society
was that women had access to good and liberal education. They were taught among
other things, literature and fine arts and given practical training in music,
dance and drama, which were considered as accomplishments fit for them. There is
ample evidence for this in Kaihana’s Rajatarangini, Somadeva’s
Katha-sarit-sagara, Damodargupta’s KuttanimataKavya, Bilhana’s
Vikramankadeva Charit and several other works. The great Sanskrit grammarian
Pamni gives the formation Kathi, for a female student to Kathaka school of
Black Yajurveda to which the Kashmiri Pandits belong. An idea of the curriculum
can be had from the Kuttanimata Kavya. A girl was taught variety of subjects, we
learn, including literature, Bharata’s Natyashastra. paintings, aboriculture,
cookery, cut—work in leaves (patra-chcheda), vocal and instrumental music
etc. In a nostalgic mood Bilhana remembers towards the end of Vikramakadeva
Charit the accomplished women of Kashmir who not only spoke Sanskrit and Prakrit
as fluently as their mother tongue, but, also composed poetry in it. In
theatrical performance and dancing they excelled the celestial maidens.
Several women have played a significant role in shaping the
political history of Kashmir. Yashovati became the first queen in Kashmir to be
enthroned as a ruler — even though as a regent. Queens like Sugandha and Didda
gave very impressive account of their. administrative acumen. Many others, like
Khadana. Amritprabha, Chakramardika, Kalyandevi, Ratnadevi and Kamla Devi built
shrines and marketplaces and towns. Chandrapida’s queen Kalyanadevi
was exalted by the King as “Mahapratiharapala, something like the Chief
Chamberlain. Suryamati, the queen of King Ananta helped her husband to overcome
his initial difficulties in administering the State. Queen Kalhanika, was sent
on a delicate diplomatic mission of bringing about a rappochement between
Jayasimha and Bhoja. This presupposes that these queens must have
received some training in the art of administration and diplomacy previously.
As for the common woman, we do not know what occupations, if
any, were open to her besides that of a housewife. We have a water carrier
sculpted on a tile from Harvwan. Perhaps some women worked as flower-sellers
too. Most of them, however. took care of their family and children, acting as
wife and mother. There is evidence to show that pre-puberty marriages of girls
did not take place. In fact, works like Kshemendra’s Deshopadesha indicate that
girls were married at a mature age. Though fidelity in marriage was regarded as
an ideal, polygamy seems to have been quite prevalent among the rich and the
well-to-do men. The kings had “seraglios full of queens and concubines”. Widows;
were supposed to live an austere and highly moral life. Prevalence of sati
among the rich and aristocratic families points to some of the blemishes
which ancient Kashmiri society suffered from.
Though we do not come across any example of polyandry,
prostitution seems to have been quite common. “Although prostitution was
tolerated as an inescapable evil,’ writes Ajay Mitra Shastri. .‘ the society
looked down upon prostitutes and condemned men indulgent to them in unmistakable
terms”. Authors like Damodaragupta and Kshemendra were closely acquainted with
the trade. Damodargupta’s Kuttanimata gives us an insight into .the
prostitutes’ mode of behaviour, their proficiency in literature and fine arts,
their greed for money and customs connected with their craft. Kshemendra too in
his Narmamala, Samaya Matrika and Deshopadesha draws detailed and
graphic pictures of prostitutes’ life and exposes the moral laxity that had
crept in his contemporary society. Kalhana and Somadeva also make references to
the system of ‘devadasi’ (dedicating girls to a temple for dancing and singing)
that seems to have prevailed in Kashmir from quite early times, and could be
described as a form of prostitution.
On the whole, however, it is a happy picture of Kashmiri
women that emerges from literary sources. Dr. S.C.Ray has drawn our attention to
very significant fact in this context. To put it in his own words “Women in
Kashmir probably had some property rights and independent legal status. Kalhana
in his Rajatarangini and Kshemendra in his Samaya Matrika seem to indicate that
a widow inherited her husbands’ immovable property after his death, rather than
his sons”. This is something really very significant, and needs further
research.
This discussion about social organization in ancient and
early Kashmir is by no means complete and conclusive, but we can safely draw
certain inferences. The first and the that must be noted is that though there
was an awareness of the four traditional castes, Brahmana, Kshatriya,
Vaishya and Shudra, the early Kashmiri society was not rigid about
the caste system. In fact, it was divided more along occupational lines than
caste lines. The Brahmanas were no doubt highly respected, but because
they valued learning above everything else and formed the intellectual class.
The religious rituals and ceremonies were performed by the priestly class among
the Brahmanas, and not all Brahmanas were priests. Second the most
important occupational class in the society was that of the agriculturists,
followed by the rich and prosperous merchants and traders and the various upward
mobile artisan classes. It were the Damaras among the agriculturists who became
very powerful and influential as feudal landlords and interfered with the
affairs of the State, holding at times the entire administration to ransom.
There was also the administrative class. which was comprised of the nobility and
the bureaucracy. The latter was referred to by the cover name of Kayastha
or the king’s officers engaged in collecting revenue and taxes, but they did not
belong to any specific caste. Their oppressive and exploitative methods and
their greed and corruption have been severely criticized by writers like
Kshemendra and Kalhana. Thirdly, and lastly, women occupied a high
position in the society and enjoyed freedom unknown in contemporary societies
elsewhere in the world. Tantracism of the Shaiva and Shakta variety which led to
the spread of the mother goddess cult in Kashmir regards Supreme Reality to be
feminine in essence and calls for revering women as manifestations of the
eternal feminine or Shakti.